Tres Mas

“True morality consists not in following the beaten track, but in finding the true path for ourselves, and fearlessly following it.” ~ Mahatma Gandhi

Continuing yesterday’s focus, here are three more clues to validate that you’re on your chosen path, as well as some hints that you may be deviating from it and working against both flow and forward progress.

Clue #4
You play, have fun and see the humor in everything. You find delight in everything that crosses your path. You are passionate about how you cross the paths of others while honoring how you can share your unique message, mission and gifts with them. You look forward to your work and how you are contributing to the betterment of others. When the unexpected happens, you are curious and in awe of the mystery it presents.

You are stressed by the unexpected and fearful of what you don’t know. You don’t trust other people and especially their intentions. You feel protective and defensive of your reality for your experiences and your life. You seek control, understanding, and act to get what you want, even if it’s taken from others.

Clue #5
You allow each day and situation to flow. You are confident that all that is wanted for you will flow to you if you are open to receiving it. You know that elaborate plans and myriad goals interfere with flow and move you into an “efforting” agenda. You trust yourself and who you are being to join the flow and allow your life to unfold to be adventurous and inspiring.

You believe the more you plan and the more you do, the more you can get. You are intense and easily disappointed when what you want doesn’t show up as you wanted and when. You blame yourself, others, and the world for denying you or causing your issues and problems. Complaining, criticizing, and judging keep you feeling justified for how you feel.

Clue #6
You have strong boundaries to protect your time, space, energy, money and joy. You know to whom, what, and how much of each of these areas you will share. You also give time, space, and energy each day to caring for your physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual well-being.

Your body shows evidence of chronic stress. You worry about your health and fear what could happen to you and your health. You are resentful that people don’t respect your boundaries and demand and take your time, space, energy, money and joy. You feel overwhelmed and drained by it all and guilty that you can’t give or don’t want to give more.

When you’re on your intended path, these and the previously shared clues keep reminding you that your life is on track. The hints are like road signs that say not this way, get back on the path. Beacons or signs exist in every moment. Which ones are you seeing right now?

4 thoughts on “Tres Mas

  1. Wonderful! Glad you continued this “series.” Here’s a quote that ties in nicely . . . especially to Hints #2 yesterday:

    Often people attempt to live their lives backwards:

    They try to have more things, or more money, in order to do more of what they want so that they will be happier.

    The way it actually works is the reverse:

    You must first be who you really are, then, do what you need to do, in order to have what you want.

    ~ Margaret Young

  2. Amazing! Yours is one of the most inspirational and enlightening blogs I have come across. I have thus far only read your latest couple of posts, but a quick scan makes me feel I will definitely appreciate what else you have to say and cannot wait to read ALL of your other posts. I sense there is an awful lot of wisdom to be gained by immersing myself in your blog. Magnificent work!

    This post really made me feel good too, because I resonated with the ‘clues’ and now I feel like I’m doing things more right than I realized I was. Thank you!

    • You are quite welcome. Careful, though, as flattery might get you somewhere. But seriously, thank you for your humbling remarks. I’m warmed that this post made you feel good and that it personally resonated. Maybe you’re not giving yourself enough credit for having already “done things more right.” Clues are just one of many guiding tools that help us on our unique journeys. Enjoy yours, EJ.

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